How to Give a Killer BJ

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We almost didn't -- but yeah, we're going there.

Talk It Up
Start things off on the right, er, foot by telling him he's about to get the absolute best blow job he's ever had. It's all about the mindset, and the fact is if he thinks you're about to rock his world, he's more likely to feel the ground shake.

Get Heated
Open your mouth around his penis without touching it with your lips or tongue for about one minute while rubbing his thighs with your hands. The warm, damp sensation will get him primed and ready for action (read: less work for you later on).

Find His Hot Spot
Ask him which part of his penis he wants you to focus on: the tip, the upper shaft, or the lower shaft. If he likes the tip or upper shaft, use one hand to rub his balls and perineum (the piece of skin right between the testicles and anus).

Go Deep (Throat)
If he's a lower shaft guy, well, you've got your work cut out for you. Teach yourself how to loosen up your throat (and avoid gagging) by guzzling water or juice. Basically, it's the same skill as funneling a beer, so just flash back to your college days.

Do the Twist
Put your hands on his shaft and twist gently in opposite directions (like an Indian burn, minus the burn). As you do this, twirl your tongue on the tip of his penis. All the sensations will have him rarin' to go.

Nestpert: Alex Robboy, certified sex therapist, is the founder of Sex Therapy in Philadelphia (SexTherapyinPhiladelphia.com).