Sex Q&A: Does size really matter?

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Does size really matter when it comes to having more or less pleasure in bed?


Girlfriends will say all sorts of things about size and the like, but at the end of the day, what's most important is that you and your husband share your own style of sexual enjoyment. Some women are "size queens," but don't buy the hype! Men on the small side are often kings when it comes to foreplay because they try to make up for what they think they're lacking. You can also choose positions where you can create the most friction: Try girl-on-top with your legs between his, and grind your clitoris against his pubic bone. Or get him behind you in doggy style -- in this position, even a less-endowed guy can reach your G-spot if you tilt your hips up toward him.

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